The truth is, there are many different F words, but the one I want to shine a light on today is focus, because whatever you focus on will multiply.
Focus on fear, lack, and desperation → you attract more of it.
Focus only on money, shortcuts, and greed → fraud creeps in.
Focus on faith, integrity, and what’s right → lasting success takes root.
Focus is a magnet. It multiplies whatever you lock onto.
The danger comes when that focus is misdirected. Most people don’t realize their focus is shaping their reality or organization until it’s too late. And by the time they do, what started small has multiplied into something almost impossible to contain.
🎯 Focus in Action
The more you focus on something, the more you start to notice it.
It’s like when you buy a new car and suddenly see that same model everywhere, it feels like the world changed, but really, you did.
Your focus acts like a filter, tuning your brain to seek out what matters most to you.
If you focus on fear, your mind scans for threats.
You start noticing problems everywhere, missing opportunities, and rushing into bad decisions just to escape discomfort.
Scammers love this because fear makes people predictable, and predictable people are easy to manipulate.
When leadership focuses on greed, entire organizations begin to rot.
Metrics matter more than ethics.
Compliance becomes “the bottleneck.”
And those who raise concerns are pushed aside or punished.
But when focus shifts to integrity, everything changes.
Decisions slow down.
Questions get asked.
And when you shine light on fraud, it can no longer thrive in darkness; over time, its power begins to crumble under exposure.
🛞 Blamed for the Blowout That Didn’t Happen
Sometimes the very thing that saves you is the thing that gets you scolded.
Like stopping to check a tire that looks fine, only to be blamed for slowing everyone down.
Imagine you’re about to leave for a road trip.
The car is packed, music’s ready, and excitement is high.
Right before piling in, someone notices that a back tire looks flat.
“Wait, we need to check that before we leave.”
Here’s how everyone reacts:
One friend groans: “Why now? We’re already late!”
Another says, “It’s probably fine. Let’s just go.”
The driver sighs: “You’re holding us up.”
Suddenly, the person who noticed the danger becomes the problem.
But here’s the truth: they’re not slowing things down for fun, they’re protecting everyone.
The focus needs to shift from speed and excitement to safety and prevention.
Fraud works the same way.
When people are focused only on “getting there fast,” they resent anyone who pumps the brakes to check for danger.
But ignoring warning signs leads to blowouts both on the highway and in business.
🛒 The Protection in the Pause
Not all safeguards look heroic.
Sometimes, they show up as a simple moment of hesitation, the kind of pause that frustrates people in line but prevents a much bigger problem.
Think about standing in line at a store.
A customer hands over an ID to buy alcohol. The cashier pauses, squints at it, and calls a manager.
The line groans:
“Come on, it’s just one bottle!”
“Why are they making such a big deal?”
“We’re going to be here forever.”
To the crowd, the cashier is the problem.
To the company, the cashier is the gatekeeper, preventing fraud.
The crowd’s focus is on speed and convenience.
The cashier’s focus is on accuracy and integrity.